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How to Contact Us [back to top]

Email: RiversMediation@aol.com

Phone: 215-266-0598. Ask for Max.

 

   
What Clients Are Saying About Us
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Testimonial

I just wanted to tell you what a difference [our] participation in the Tuesday night NVC classes made this year. I ended up being one of the people that sort of has been leading the community through [a] tough time, [and] the fact that I had the background in NVC made an incredible difference...

... I just to thank you for creating the foundations courses where we were able to start being grounded in NVC. I really hope that there will be another round of the NVC foundations this coming year. We'll be there again! Thanks, and I hope that you are having a great summer,

 

-M & M, Phila, PA

"You did a mediation with us about 3 weeks ago… I wanted to say it was really great ...Thank you very, very much, it was extremely helpful. It was great. [My husband] really felt like he was heard and I felt I was heard too." - Married Couple

"Wow! Your communication skills blow my socks off! If I had asked you four or five months ago there would have been no issue... Thanks for diffusing what could have been an explosive problem!" - Tenant/Landlord issue

"We deeply appreciate your insightful guidance and clarity as you assisted us in becoming present to the joy we can create in our relationship."
- Unmarried Couple

Things are going really well with me and Mark. We are able to communicate better when conflict arises.
Thank you both so much for your wisdom, loving support and guidance!

- Feb 2011: Couple in MA

 

"You two are amazing! [We] are so grateful for your skillful, heartful mediation session with us!"
- Friends Working Out Old Issues

Testimonial:

I'm wondering how the two of you are doing? It's been about 3 months since we did our last session.

Things are going great. We are using the skills we learned from you every day and are actively living the relationship both of us want. Thank you again for your help.
- Husband of young couple

 

Max,
I love knowing that you are there for us if we need you, thanks. I am happy to say that our communication has greatly improved. We used to fight every day and yell and get upset. These days we have happy times and when an issue arises, we talk it out in reference to our needs. When [my husband] or I do get overly upset, we take a break and return to the conversation once we cool down. It's great! I'm also glad to report that we will be getting married this September 24th! We both had doubts before, and now we are sure... I'm so thankful that we came to see you.
- Soon to be married couple

And by the way, good news, we are using our 'Max skills' [NVC]...doing "need-based negotiations" and honoring each other's needs, and it is working! We are way less conflictual and feeling much softer towards each other, and have had no big yucky arguments over these past few wks! And as a result of having needs met, in turn, [my spouse] has been more flexible and less "controlling" and I think I've been less "judging"/less withholding too.
-Phila Couple

 

   
  What Clients Are Saying About our NVC tranings
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I want to say how much I appreciated the class last night. It gave me a much deeper understanding of what 'compassionate consciousness' is all about, and a clearer sense of the profound implications of NVC concepts. Your own thinking and clarifying of some of the NVC concepts really resonated with me - it is so wonderful that you have put the time and thought into making those concepts more accessible and useful.

-- Foundations II Student Feb 2011

Student Review:

I appreciate you and our entire class for the journey we have embarked upon. It feels important and infinitely valuable and life affirming and oh my God am I really saying this: FUN!!!!!

Student Review:

I just want to thank you again for the NVC classes that I took back in 2009 ... I feel like it has completely changed MY LIFE in a good way! :-)

I keep meaning to thank you. 2010 was really a good year for me after those classes ... it's so much easier to connect with people, easier to resolve my own internal conflicts, and my friends comment on how calm and empathetic I am in a crisis and they seem to rely on me more often for someone to talk to. To be honest I haven't been consciously "trying to use NVC" ... it just affected my perspective in a very good and peaceful way.

-Janie

Student Review:

I am grateful for the skills and insights I have developed through my study and practice of NVC...My Christmas visit with my parents was the most peaceful, and mutually satisfying and appreciative one to date and almost entirely free from the usual agonizing conflict. There were many moments of deep sharing and understanding and I was able to take none of the occasional judgmental comments personally. Miraculous. I appreciate your contribution to my progress...

 

   


Who Are We [back to top]
 

Max and Elise Rivers are Two Rivers Mediation. We are life-partners as well as co-developers of Teamwork Marriage Mediation(tm).Mediation sessions are with Max.

Both were trained by TMTC (The Mediation and Training Collaborative) in Mediation and CHINS (Children in Need of Services) in Greenfield MA. We have also taken advanced mediation trainings from MWI (Mediation Works, Inc.) in Facilitation, and Max has is also Certified in Negotiation (MWI), Divorce Mediation (Berkshire Mediation) and Victim Offender Dialogues (Brattleboro Community Justice Center) (See Max's Resume). Elise is also an attorney and acupuncturist.

Together they pioneered the use of mediation preventatively to help committed couples work through their differences and learn to communicate constructively using NVC: Non-Violent Communication.

Our own spiritual path is called Jewish Renewal, which is an experiential form of Mystical Judaism. For clients who have a spiritual bent, we can use the spiritual metaphors of your practice and help you become the kind of person your highest self envisions in your dealings with your partners in life.

   
When Are We Available? [back to top]
 

Sessions last 1.5. The first session is guaranteed - if either of you or we aren't completely satisfied that this is the right process for you, there's no charge.

For most couples, this process tends to take six sessions. As a result, it's possible to purchase a pre-paid six-session package that saves $50 off the cost of each session.

We generally do one mediation in the morning (8-11am) another in the afternoon (1-5pm) and another in the evening (7-9pm). You can select any start time in your time slot.

We also have on-site child care available (this makes scheduling more complex and so must be set up well in advance). We pay 1/2 the fee and you are responsible for the other half (childcare person gets $30 for one child, $45 for two) .

Contact us for current time slots which are open.

Other Options:

Besides our Mt. Airy (NW Philly, PA) office, we are also available to come to your office or home (there is an extra charge, depending on travel time).

If either or both participant(s) are too distant to come to Mt. Airy, we can do mediations over the phone or on Skype. We prefer that the first session be in person if at all possible.

Contact us to schedule an appointment.

   
How Much Does It Cost? [back to top]
 

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