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1)
The Illusion of Separateness: Couples often come to
us caught in two illusions: first, that there is a problem; and
second, the problem is the other person. As a result they speak
from Fear and with Judgment. We replace “problem” with “difference”
and help each of you remember the love and respect which brought
you together.
2)
The Myth of Scarcity: In the second stage, couples
slip into a power struggle about whose solution will “win.” At
this stage, it feels as though there is only enough love for one
of you to get your needs met, but underneath each person’s hard-lined
strategies are flexible needs which open up a universe of possibilities.
3)
Abundance as the Solution: The
return of love within the abundance of possibilities sparks the
creative energy in the couple as a team. Now, all “we” have to
do is select from the many options available that meet both our
needs.
4)
Oneness Rediscovered:
Finally, the presenting “problem” has been revealed for what it
always was: an opportunity for experiencing the unity beneath
the illusion of separateness.
Contact us to schedule an
appointment.
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