It does sound like there are some potential problems.

And allowing issues like these to continue unchecked is the single largest cause of divorce!

It erodes the love, and instead of getting our deepest needs satisfied, turns the relationship into one stuggle after another.

The majority of these kinds of issues are the result of the natural differences that any two people bring into a relationship. Most often, they are not about "irreconcilable" differences, even though they can feel that way.

If there was a way to get help turning these differences into opportunities for increased closeness, would you be interested in find out about it?

we're looking for some help

we'd like to work on our own